The family is the basic unit of society and everyone should take care to preserve this state, the church and the family itself. However, if counseling and reconciliation can not resolve the conflict in the family, divorce, may be regarded as the best solution. For couples with children, however, the situation is much more complex compared to childless couples. Divorce can have devastating consequences for children and can leave long scars that may affect them useful citizens of society. In the process of divorce, the offspring will go through emotional conflicts. Anger is common. Anger at the current state of anger toward their parents, who themselves, as some may think that they are to blame for the department.

The feeling of sadness, suffering and loss felt, because it will make changes where they live. They will lose the other parents, their friends, their school, people and circumstances that stabilize their daily lives. They will feel rejected. Studies have shown that boys and girls are affected differently and respond in different manners. Boys are more noisy, because they have to show and act out their inner feelings. They go on fighting, they are challenging. They cause a violation and would not have been more even for a short period of time. They are the ones who turn to drugs and alcohol.

These girls on the other hand, suffer and become internally introverts. They are worried and unhappy. Thus, they turn to the relationship or delayed sexual promiscuity, which could lead to early pregnancies and early marriage. Thus, if not guided Accordingly, these children tend to stop school and will spend itself in substance abuse. They will provide citizens with emotional and mental illness, criminals or the release of the society. To save the children, parents should have the obligation to send their children through the divorce process and the period thereafter, until their emotional conflicts have been resolved. They must subordinate their emotions and shocks together to try to show the same love and devotion to children.
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